A Few Tips About Mens Feelings…

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“If Only I Could Understand Men….”

Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated. Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do?

 

Rather than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is often more helpful to focus on a few areas that any woman can understand.


1) Men are more sensitive than women!!!  While that might sound silly, the truth is that men don’t have the ability to recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman. Because of this, men keep themselves from getting too upset. When a man hears he should just “let his feelings out,” what he translates that into is this, “If I let my feelings out, I might not be able to control them.”


2) Men hate fighting!!!  For men, conflict is not simply resolving a problem. Fighting, to a man, means one has to win and the other needs to be totally defeated. Men often prefer conflict that is non-emotional because it is less threatening to them. Once a conflict becomes emotionally charged, it is very difficult for a man to contain those feelings and the most frequent coping skill is for them to become quiet. It may seem like they are punishing you, but they are most likely trying not to lose control.

3) Men want to get married!!!  In spite of what many progressive cultures preach, the truth is that a majority of men in the world do get married. While the freedom of being single has its appeal, it comes with one primary drawback – it is lonely. While this might not sound overly romantic, finding a woman that a man can trust is just as important as finding one who is beautiful.

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4 thoughts on “A Few Tips About Mens Feelings…”

  1. I am a bit older so I’ve been around the block and learned around along the way. I was fortunate to meet a good man in my late 30’s after failing miserably in picking men. And really, I didn’t pick my husband– he took a risk and chose me. What I have realized is that many men, my hubby included, love praise and adoration above all. I also make an effort to take care of my body out of respect for him and for myself of course. I cook too…really cook and take care of the house matters. The last two points may seem old-fashioned or trite, but there is some division of duties and he does his part (and likes praise for it!) In turn my husband is very complimentary of me even though he has to put up with a lot of fall out from my past which is complex and tends to seep into our lives. He shoulders my baggage and (cliche) dries my tears.

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